Ian Kerner

Ian Kerner is a licensed psychotherapist, sexuality counselor, and New York Times bestselling author specializing in sex therapy and relationship issues. He is best known for his groundbreaking book "She Comes First," which became the best-selling sex advice book of the past decade and has been translated into numerous languages. Kerner has authored multiple books published by Harper Collins and maintains a prominent media presence through regular contributions to CNN and appearances on programs like the TODAY Show and The Dr. Oz Show.

As a certified member of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT), Kerner combines clinical expertise with accessible writing to address contemporary sexual health topics. His work frequently explores themes of intimacy, communication, and evolving attitudes toward relationships. Beyond his writing, he lectures extensively at institutions including New York University, Yale, and Princeton, while also maintaining a psychotherapy practice at New York's Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy, where he works with diverse clients across the sexuality spectrum.

Kerner founded GoodInBed.com, a platform that aggregates research and insights from leading sexuality experts while conducting original studies on relationship dynamics. His investigations have examined topics ranging from monogamy trends to sexual adventurousness. Born and raised in New York City, he continues to reside there with his family while maintaining an active role as both clinician and public educator in the field of human sexuality.
Non-Fiction Books
# Title Year
1 Be Honest--You're Not That into Him Either 2005
2 He Comes Next: The Thinking Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man 2006
3 Passionista: The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man 2006
4 Sex Detox: Recharge Desire. Revitalize Intimacy. Rejuvenate Your Love Life. 2007
5 Love in the Time of Colic: The New Parents' Guide to Getting It On Again 2009
6 Sex Recharge: A Rejuvenation Plan for Couples and Singles 2009
7 She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman 2004
8 DSI--Date Scene Investigation: The Diagnostic Manual of Dating Disorders 2006
9 Good in Bed Guide to 52 Weeks of Amazing Sex 2010
10 A Woman's Guide to Male Sexual Issues 2011
11 The Big, Fun, Sexy Sex Book 2012
12 So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex 2021