Patrick King

Patrick King is a social interaction specialist and communication coach based in San Francisco, California. As a bestselling author, he has written extensively on dating, relationships, and human psychology, with his works including the #1 Amazon bestseller "The Flawless Interaction Checklist." His expertise has been recognized by national publications such as Inc.com, GQ Magazine, Forbes, and NBC News.

King's approach emphasizes emotional intelligence and practical psychology, avoiding gimmicks in favor of actionable strategies. With a background that includes three years of law school, he combines analytical rigor with accessible advice to help clients improve their social and romantic interactions. Beyond writing, he has shared his insights through platforms like TEDx and CreativeLive while balancing creative pursuits as a musician and runner.
Be Confident and Fearless Books
# Title Year
1 Bulletproof Confidence 2015
2 Fearless Social Confidence 2016
3 Stop People Pleasing 2018
4 Mental Toughness & Iron Will 2019
5 The Art of Everyday Assertiveness 2019
6 How to Establish Boundaries 2020
7 How To Say No 2021
8 The Confidence Formula 2021
9 Stand Up For Yourself, Set Boundaries, & Stop Pleasing Others 2022
Clear Thinking and Fast Action Books
# Title Year
1 Superhuman Focus 2016
2 Instant Focus 2017
3 The Science of Overcoming Procrastination 2018
4 Relentless Focus 2018
5 The Art of Clear Thinking 2019
6 The Science of Getting Started 2019
7 10-Minute Philosophy 2019
8 Practical Intelligence 2019
9 Take Rapid Action 2019
10 Learn To Think Using Thought Experiments 2020
11 Learn to Think Using Riddles, Brain Teasers, and Wordplay 2020
12 Motivation Triggers 2020
13 How to Think with Intention 2020
14 The Independent Thinker 2021
How to be More Likable and Charismatic Books
# Title Year
1 Magnetic Charisma 2017
2 Principles of Likability 2018
3 Improve Your People Skills 2019
4 Better Small Talk 2020
5 How to Listen with Intention 2020
6 The Art of Witty Banter 2020
7 Read People Like a Book 2020
8 Improve Your Conversations 2021
9 How to Listen, Hear, and Validate 2021
10 How to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth 2021
11 How to Engage, Connect, & Captivate 2021
12 How To Be Hilarious and Quick-Witted in Everyday Conversation 2021
13 Become A Human Behavior Scientist 2021
14 Intentional Communication 2021
15 Massive Charisma 2022
16 How to Talk to Anyone 2022
17 Train Your Empathy 2022
18 Communication Skills Training 2022
19 Unspoken Social Rules & Etiquette, common Sense, & How to Act 2023
20 The Science of Reading People 2023
21 How to Speak Effectively 2023
22 The Power of E.Q. 2023
23 Make Friends Easily 2023
24 Conversation Skills Training 2023
25 Social Equations 2024
26 Mindful Listening 2024
27 Small Talk that Doesn't Suck 2024
28 The Social Skills Toolkit 2024
29 Gain Social Awareness and Become Socially Perceptive! 2024
30 I Feel Heard 2024
31 How to Speed Read People 2024
32 Elements of Likability 2025
The Psychology of Social Dynamics Books
# Title Year
1 The Science of Social Intelligence: 33 Studies to Win Friends, Be Magnetic, Make An Impression, and Use People’s Subconscious Triggers 2017
2 Introvert Survival Tactics: How to Make Friends, Be More Social, and Be Comfortable In Any Situation 2017
3 The Science of Engineering Attraction & Love: Flirt, Date, and Mate Using Human Psychology 2018
4 The Science of Likability: 60 Evidence-Based Methods to Radiate Charisma, Make a Powerful Impression, Win Friends, and Trigger Attraction [2019 Edition] 2019
5 Control Your Emotions: Gain Balance, Resilience, and Calm; Find Freedom from Stress, Anxiety, and Negativity 2019
6 Think Like a Psychologist: How to Analyze Emotions, Read Body Language and Behavior, Understand Motivations, and Decipher Intentions 2019
7 The Introvert Survival Guide: How to Stretch your Comfort Zone, Feel Comfortable Anywhere, and Become a “People Person” 2021
8 The Science of Attraction: What Behavioral & Evolutionary Psychology Can Teach Us About Flirting, Dating, and Mating 2021
9 The Art of Self-Awareness: How to Dig Deep, Introspect, Discover Your Blind Spots, and Truly Know Thyself 2022
Non-Fiction Books
# Title Year
1 Charm Her Socks Off 2014
2 The Coffee Meets Bagel Handbook 2014
3 Chatter 2014
4 Open Him Up 2014
5 Keep Him Captivated! 2014
6 Inside Her 2014
7 Magnetic 2014
8 The Breakup Blueprint 2014
9 The Modern Alpha Male 2014
10 Social Skills - Social Fluency 2014
11 Body Talk 2014
12 Punch Out Procrastination 2014
13 Conversationally Speaking 2015
14 Did She Reply Yet? 2015
15 Dating Advice 2015
16 Sweep Her Off Her Feet 2015
17 Friendzone Proof 2015
18 Everyday Charisma 2015
19 Conversation Tactics: Book 1 2015
20 Superhuman Eye Contact Training 2015
21 Inspire! The Art Of Persuasive Leadership 2015
22 Encore! Ace All Of Life's Speeches, Performances, And Presentations 2016
23 Be Irresistible 2016
24 Conversation Tactics: Book 2 2016
25 Conquer 2016
26 Dirty Diamonds 2016
27 Conversation Tactics: Book 3 2016
28 People Tactics 2016
29 Conversation Tactics: Book 4: 2016
30 Persuasion Tactics 2016
31 Laugh Tactics 2016
32 Fearless Public Speaking 2017
33 Champion Mindset 2017
34 Connect Instantly 2017
35 Meant For More 2017
36 Awkward Silences and How to Prevent Them 2017
37 Stage Fight 2018
38 Beat Fear 2018
39 The Art Of Impactful Communication 2018
40 The Psychology Of Taking Action 2018
41 Take Action Like Your Life Depends On It 2018
42 Push Yourself 2018
43 Push 2018
44 Think Fast 2018
45 Mental Agility 2018
46 Super Tough 2018
47 Limitless 2019
48 The Art Of Captivating Conversation 2020
49 Establishing Boundaries 2020